more family bullshit caused by my cousin, yet again.. I think this is the 4th year in a row? My cousin S is having a baby. Thursday was thanksgiving and our other cousin C came from marine camp to surprise us all. So, S and her sister R and C I guess all went out to dinner with R and S's mom and our grandmother Friday night. My sister and I were not invited, yet 'going out to dinner with all the ladies' was all over their facebooks. I wrote to R and S asking if they went and why weren't we included? and how that upset me. Well, S wrote back and said it was their half sisters idea and since C was in town, she was invited too. I said okay, but seeing it on FB was fairly upsetting.. end of story, right?
No.. R wrote back about how I didn't go to her wedding (on a Friday at 3 pm with maybe 3 weeks notice) or her son's birthday parties (I've been to all of them that I've been able to go to, and if I can't go, I still send a card and gift, but never get notice that he got them, let alone a thank you note)...and how my mother is so noisy (somehow, R thinks I went running to my mom about all this..which I didn't) and that I'm a bitch and I don't try to be a part of this family, blah blah blah.
Well, I was PISSED. LIVID.. don't blame my mom because she called you out on your shit. and I've decided that I wasn't taking shit from R anymore. I called her out on leaving her son and dissapering for almost 2 years, for only being with the family when she got something out of it, for ditching me and our plans I don't know how many times... I probably was nastier than I needed to be... but R can seem to do no wrong, yet my grandmother asks my sister how I have friends or even a job because I'm so bitchy. I made up my mind awhile ago, that I'm not going to do things just to make other people happy. I don't like going to family things when R is being the 'queen' or her idoit husband (who, doesn't have a highschool education, or a job) is there being an ass.
UGH... she just pisses me off. Then she called me a pathetic loser that cries to her mommy about every thing and that I'm going to die alone and kids will throw rocks at my house. REALLY?! why to make me feel bad you 12 year old. I'm sorry that I have a mother that will stand up for me. I'm not going to just go along with what everyone else wants me to do just so I don't make waves. It just ain't happening anymore!!!!